The Arrival of my Son.

This is more of a personal post, that's about the recent arrival of my son.

He was due to be born sometime between 38 and 40 weeks. Though, by 35.5 weeks, he was already 2.836 kg in weight, which is roughly the same weight of a baby at 37 weeks.

The date of his birth could also be off by plus or minus 1 week due to when he was conceived; there were only really had 2 dates that could have even been possible, so we know he came earlier than usual (either 34.5 or 35.5 weeks; doesn't really matter he came early).

I am sure some of you reading must be wondering why I am writing about this. Well, my son came on the same day as my late mother's birthday. This was a clear sign that my mother in the other world had helped in some way, which is why he was born on that day. But there is more to it than that.

If my wife had carried full term, it would have been a very difficult pregnancy, and we were already told she would have had to have a cesarean if she carried full term. It's like the universe, or rather my mother from the other side had timed the birth perfectly at a time that was right for my son and also for my wife.

Her health is not too great in terms of additional weight and some sleeping problems as well. The pregnancy was already hard on my wife anyway, and we spent 2 nights in a hospital where the rooms were just too hot due to the sunny weather outside during the day; it didn't really cool down much during the night either.

After seeing the toll the pregnancy and the subsequent birth has taken on my wife, I started to see that everything has been planned; my mother on the other side, or the consciousness of the universe. Whatever is responsible, I now believe that we were always supposed to have this child, we have to trust in what we believe in as it has now proven that things have come together perfectly, even though there have been a few sacrifices for all three of us during this transitional period; including the toll on my mother-in-law and first child; our daughter who didn't get to see us for a short time.

Our son is still in the hospital. We came home 3 days and 2 nights after he was born. He came early, so they took him away to the neonatal care unit. We were not allowed to even see him after he was sent there, and certainly not allowed to visit him there either; it's frustrating.

Though I have seen the toll the birth had taken on my wife, I understand why things worked out this way now. Basically, she needs a little more time to recover, as without proper rest, and adjustment to preparing for breastfeeding, it's quite likely it would affect her mental state. This time is actually the perfect recovery for her, and also gives me time to prepare more for when we can bring our son home.

For him, he has to develop an immunity to what little exposure he has to airborne microbes and strengthen his immune system. Then he will be ready to come home, and we will be well-rested and prepared for his arrival moving forward.

People always follow the god narrative from an enslaving religious perspective. We are taught that we need to worship God and go to church every week and pray all the time.

Though my mother's ancestral line is Pagan, I am a Pagan. I don't support the enslavement of any of the Abrahamic religions. I respect the balance of the universe and allow the energies that are part of that to flow through me and my family and around us. I trust in the abilities that I do have and follow a path that my guides and the guides of my children have guided us to.

Many people following Abrahamic religions would have people believe that those like us who do not follow their religion will go to hell and that we won't receive gods blessing. They are following something and when harmonised the life force of the universe will help them, but when in opposition to the balance they wonder why things don't work out for them and believe that their God has forsaken them. It's always about the balance, and we need to live in harmony with that and respect it.

My children are a part of the universal plan, there is something greater than ourselves that our species doesn't yet understand; I am closer to that understanding than most people in the world, but still my knowledge of the beyond is still limited.

I know and trust the plan for us and our children.